Am I Being Abused?

Are you a little uneasy about your relationship? Are you unsure if you’re just being paranoid? Are you positive that you’re being abused and are just looking to back up yourself? Here is the place to find out for sure.

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    My partner teases me in a hurtful way in private or in public.

    • Rarely
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Frequently
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    My partner calls me names such as “stupid,” “b*tch,” “fat,” “ugly,” “whore,” “@sshole,” etc.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • Rarely
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    My partner acts jealous of my friends, family and/or co-workers.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Never
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    My partner gets angry about clothes I wear and/or how I style my hair.

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
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    My partner checks up on me by calling, driving by, or getting someone else to do that for him.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Never
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    My partner insists on knowing who I talk to on the phone or online.

    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
    • Never
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    My partner blames me for their problems and/or bad moods.

    • Sometimes
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Rarely
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    I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around my partner because they become angry so easily.

    • Frequently
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Never
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    My partner throws and/or destroys things when angry.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Never
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    My partner hits walls, drives dangerously and/or does other things to scare me.

    • Rarely
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Frequently
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    My partner drinks and/or uses drugs.

    • Frequently
    • Rarely
    • Never
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    My partner insists I drink and/or use drugs whenever they do.

    • Rarely
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Frequently
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    My partner is jealous and/or accuses me of being interested in someone else.

    • Rarely
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Sometimes
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    My partner invades my privacy (reads my mail and/or email, checks my phone logs, goes through my personal space and belongings, etc.)

    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
    • Never
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    My partner keeps me from getting a job or has cost me a job.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • Rarely
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    My partner keeps money from me, steals from me, keeps me in debt and/or has “money secrets.”

    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
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    My partner sold my car, made me give up my driver’s license, broke my car and/or refuses to repair my car.

    • Sometimes
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Rarely
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    My partner has threatened to hurt me.

    • Never
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
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    My partner has threatened to hurt my children.

    • Rarely
    • N/A
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Sometimes
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    My partner has actually hurt my child/children.

    • Frequently
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
    • Never
    • N/A
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    My partner has threatened to hurt my and/or other people’s pets.

    • N/A
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Rarely
    • Sometimes
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    My partner has actually hurt my or others’ pets.

    • N/A
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Sometimes
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    My partner has threatened to hurt my friends and/or family.

    • Never
    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
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    My partner has hurt a friend or family member.

    • Frequently
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Never
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    My partner has threatened to commit suicide if I leave.

    • Never
    • Once
    • Frequently
    • More than once
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    My partner has struck me with hands or feet (i.e., slapped, punched, kicked, pinched, scratched, etc.).

    • Frequently
    • Rarely
    • Never
    • Sometimes
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    My partner has struck me with an object and/or threatened me with a weapon.

    • Never
    • Just once
    • More than once
    • Frequently
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    My partner has given me visible injuries such as bruises, welts, cuts, broken bones, scratches, etc.

    • Never
    • More than once
    • Frequently
    • Just once
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    I have had to administer first aid to myself due to injuries from my partner.

    • Never
    • Just once
    • More than once
    • Frequently
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    My injuries have been serious enough to seek treatment from a doctor, hospital, clinic, paramedic, etc.

    • Never
    • More than once
    • Just once
    • Frequently
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    My partner forces me to have sex when I don’t want to.

    • Never
    • Just once
    • More than once
    • Frequently
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    My partner forces me to have sex in ways that I don’t want to.

    • Frequently
    • Just once
    • More than once
    • Never
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    My partner has been in trouble with the police.

    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
    • Frequently
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    My partner acts one way in front of others and another way when we are alone. Other people have no idea how he/she is when alone with me.

    • Frequently
    • Never
    • Sometimes
    • Rarely
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    My partner is secretive and/or lies about past relationships.

    • No
    • Now that you mention it, maybe a little
    • I don’t know that anything or everything he says are lies
    • Yeah, there has been a lot of that
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    I feel isolated and alone and have no one I can really talk to.

    • I feel like I have a few people to turn to.
    • Never
    • It is becoming that way.
    • Always
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    I have lost friends because of my partner and/or their actions.

    • One or two
    • Pretty much everyone, yeah
    • Most of my friends
    • No
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    I no longer see some of my family because of my partner.

    • No
    • Yes
    • Just one
  • Question of

    I have thought about calling the police because of an incident of violence.

    • Never
    • More than once
    • All the time
    • Once
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    I have actually called the police on one or more occasions.

    • More than once
    • Never
    • They drive by my house just in case
    • Once
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    I am afraid to call the police because of threats from my partner.

    • Yes, but I do anyway
    • Yes, and I do not call because of it
    • No

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